Soul Mate

Have you ever wonder……….

Who is your soul mate?
Is there soul mate for everyone?
Does soul mate live happily ever after?

(Photo Credit: Ummmm ANONYMOUS =P)

But what is ‘soul mate’?

According to the favourite online resource *ahem ahem* - Wikipedia, soul mate is defined as a term used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, friendship, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality and/or compatibility.

For me, soul mate refers to the person who is the mirror of you and whom you can call your own. Short and sweet.

You know you have found your soul mate when you don’t need to explain in long details what you have in your heart but you know exactly what the other person is thinking. Sometimes you don’t even have to think long to come out with an answer.

I never believed in soul mates. I believed there is no such magical power that you can read through someone’s glass. I was like “Come on, we all need reality checks. Soul mate will never exist. Who would believe someone who can actually read your mind, complete your sentences, and know exactly how you’re feeling even though you tried so hard to fake it? This is totally impossible. Way impossible.”

But I guess I was being too naïve, and really need a reality check myself! Knowing him completely changes my view and the scariest part is sometimes it just totally freaks me out.

Complete each other sentences – CHECK!
Shares so much things in common – CHECK CHECK!
Speak the exact same thing at the same time (Sometimes it can be so freaky that both of us repeats each other’s word without even realizing them) – CHECK CHECK CHECK!
Know exactly how the other person feels even when trying so hard to fake it – CHECK CHECK!

I am not sure about you but for me….
He is the first person to be there when I need someone to talk to.
He appears immediately when I am like “Babe, where are you?”
He shares too much in common with me.
He knows I am sad and worried even though I told him I am ok when I know I am not at all.

Not 100% at all times but pretty close to it.

All I want to voice out is that this relationship and attraction is so unique and magical that I’ve no choice but to believe that soul mate does really exist. YES, it really does.

But then again, not everyone will experience this. In my opinion, some might not even find their soul mate during their life span. I know I am very honoured and lucky because I know it takes a lot to find your soul mate.

Thanks to fate, magical power, or whatever you call them.

AND of course… Thank you, soul mate.

Here's a little dedication to my soul mate.
(If you don’t want to read them. SKIP it! I’ve warned you!)

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Dear soul mate,

You know I am not good with words but there is nothing else I can do to describe how thankful and honoured I am for knowing you. You lifted me up and guided me when I was really lost and down. You broke through the night with daylight and motivated me when I needed it the most. You always have my back and supported me wherever you’re. You’re a very special someone to me and I never stop counting my blessings for this. It’s great to have someone like you that understand me so well and cracked your head trying to cheer me up. And my heart never ceases to melt for everything you’ve done. Thank you once again!

But before I end I just want to let you know that I am worried. I am scared. I am afraid that I might have to let you go one day. I don’t know why but I do have low self esteem at times and not believing in myself that things will happen like how we wanted to. It’s not about you. It’s just me. But I promise we’ll let things happen naturally. And no matter what, you’ll remain in my heart.

Your soul mate

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Just before I finish end today, here is a little quote for all of you and hope you like it.

“You know you have found your soul mate when you two feel you're driving in a tunnel and you feel the warm light in front of you at the end of the tunnel lighted out by your loved one.”

Hugs and kisses